How long did it take you to stop comparing your job search timeline to friends who started around the same time?

Started the same week as a friend from bootcamp, same city, similar background. She had three offers before I got a single callback. Kept refreshing her LinkedIn like it would explain what I was doing wrong, finally muted her updates for a while just to get my head straight. Not looking for advice on the job search part, more curious how other people actually got past the comparison spiral instead of just intellectually knowing it's not a race.