Recursion finally clicked for me and it was one dumb sentence that did it
I fought recursion for months. Watched every video, drew every stack diagram, still felt like magic.
What finally did it: someone told me 'trust that the function already works for the smaller case — don't trace the whole thing in your head.' That's it. Stop trying to unroll every call, just trust the recursive step and handle the base case. Suddenly trees and backtracking stopped being terrifying.
Sharing in case someone else is stuck in the same loop (pun intended).