I've switched between frontend and backend four times this year and I'm nowhere on either
Every time something gets hard I decide the other side is where I actually belong. Lost a day to a CSS layout, so clearly I'm a backend person. Then a Postgres query plan made no sense to me and suddenly React looked friendly again.
Four rounds of that and what I have is a pile of finished tutorials and nothing I'd show anyone.
The honest read is I'm not choosing between two interests. I'm leaving whichever one stopped being fun that week.
Did anyone actually pick, and how? I don't think I need the "just do fullstack" answer. I think I need the "commit to one for six months even when it sucks" answer, from someone who's actually done it.