Two offers, both good, and I've now spent more hours comparing spreadsheets than I spent in either interview process

One offer has better cash and a worse team from what I could tell in the loop, the other has meh cash but a manager I actually clicked with. Made a spreadsheet. Then a second spreadsheet. Asked four different people and got four different answers. I think I'm not actually missing information at this point, I'm just scared of picking wrong and mentally rehearsing every path so I don't have to commit to one. When did you know you were just stalling instead of deciding?