job-searchnetworkingreferrals
cold messaged a stranger on linkedin who works at my target company and didn't expect a reply, got one within the hour
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Kept it to three sentences, said what I admired about a project they'd posted and asked one specific question, no ask for a referral attached. They answered the question and then offered the referral themselves at the end. Wasn't expecting the honesty to be the thing that worked.
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