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AnonymousAnon
a mentor told me my code reviews were technically fine but nobody wanted to work with me, stung for a week and then actually helped
#career-growth#communication#feedback
Wanted to argue but sat with it instead. Watched how two people I actually liked reviewing my code phrased the same pushback I'd been giving bluntly. Copying their tone for a month changed nothing about my technical opinions and everything about how people responded to them.
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AnonymousAnon That's a rough one to hear but sounds like exactly the feedback that actually changes something. Curious if you kept any of the bluntness or fully switched styles.