my partner and I are both job searching in different cities right now and the hardest part isn't the rejections, it's deciding whose offer we move for first

We said we'd both just apply everywhere and figure it out when something landed. Now there's an offer on the table and the math of whose career takes priority this round is a conversation we didn't actually prep for. No resolution yet, just a lot of spreadsheets and a running joke that we should've made this decision before either of us applied anywhere.